Showing posts with label homophobia. Show all posts
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7/11/2012

Southern Comfort Review

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This sensitive documentary chronicles the lives several gender-bending and mind-bending sets of transsexual couples. The central character, who has become a man, is ironically dying of ovarian cancer. He was repeatedly refused treatment by the medical establishment because of his identity as a transsexual. The unconventionality of these individuals is touchingly contrasted with their fight for basic human rights, and their desire to enjoy the simple pleasures of domestic life taken for granted by most Americans. Despite some petty differences, they achieve compassion, humor, and tolerance in their interractions among themselves and with their "straight" families and friends. The dignity of their struggle brilliantly reveals that it is actually "mainstream" culture which is freakish, both in terms of its outrageous persecution and its irrational phobia of them. The final line of the film really stayed with me (I'm paraphrasing): "Nature delights in diversity, why can't human beings?" I was tempted to give the film five stars but I felt the cinematography could have been more creative and the editing could have been tighter. In terms of content, though, this film has a rare and transformative vision which would merit the highest rating.

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Rarely has a film garnered such high levels of critical praise as SOUTHERN COMFORT, a breakout hit and winner at nearly 20 major film festivals including the Grand Jury Prize at Sundance. From Seattle to Florida, from San Francisco to Berlin, SOUTHERN COM

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8/22/2011

Shank - Unrated Director Cut (2009) Review

Shank - Unrated Director Cut (2009)
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The film, "Shank" was one of the offerings at the 14th Annual Gay and Lesbian Film Festival at the Carolina Theater in Durham, NC from August 13th through August 16th, 2009. It was not an easy film to watch because it depicted gang members who spent their days drinking and using drugs and filling their nights as a group picking out gay men who happened to be alone and defenseless, beating them senseless just for fun. In that gang was a young man named Cal who was a closeted gay man fighting it with everything he was worth. The problem was, he was in love with the defacto-leader of the gang, so much so that the desires he felt had bubbled up from their depths and in spite of himself, he found himself seeking out ways to meet those needs with strange men. The tightrope he had to walk was this: meet those desires but at all costs never let the gang discover he was doing it. He was so conflicted that after he would give in to his desires, he would become physically sick and woe to any man who happened to be his pickup if he assumed after the incident that Cal was gay.
One night, the prey that the gang selected for their gay bashing was a young college student and before the beating completely got out of hand, Cal stopped it surprising both the gang members and the victim, as well as himself. The victim, Oliver, was so thankful to Cal for saving him, he brought him home and treated him nicely giving Cal his first opportunity to have a decent relationship. But, the gang members couldn't let Cal drop out of the gang. That would be treason and would require revenge, so as each day passed they planned and plotted to win him back, but that was before they discovered his secret. When they found out what Cal had been up to, pay-back was required and a scheme that would outrank anything they had ever done began to take shape.
Again, it was not an easy movie to watch but we need to see these kind of films to be reminded that there are places in this world where gays and lesbians are not safe without others to back us up. And don't be fooled that America is exempt from this hatred (it has only been a few short years since the incident of Matthew Shepherd occurred). Many hate us and would rather see us dead or never born than to see us walking around gay and proud.
But, back to the film itself and what I think made it not just a good movie but a great one. Near the end of the film there was a scene where no words were spoken. Two actions were taken by two of the characters in the film one of which was a request for forgiveness and the other was a granting of that request. The scene simply accomplished what the most elaborate words could have never achieved. It was a scene that will live forever in my memory. Rent the DVD when it comes out in October and see if you can pick out the scene I'm talking about.


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Shank is a blistering British indie pulsating with untamed sexuality and aggression. Cal (Wayne Virgo) is a handsome teenage thug so desperate to hide his gay cravings from his fellow gang members that he binges on drugs, secretive anonymous sex and acts of violence. But the bad boy s secret desires are uncovered when he rescues a kind-eyed French exchange student from one of the clan s sadistic hate crimes. Though the two boys fall passionately in love, Cal s crew is bent on revenge for his betrayal and the young lovers are placed in unspeakable danger. Unapologetic and as poignant as it is shocking, Shank is a must see...

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7/20/2011

At Ease Review

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This is a film with a lot of heart. I saw it at its original screening in Provincetown, Mass. and bought a DVD there. I was in a room with hundreds of other gay men and women, many of whom had served in the military (including myself) and there was not a dry eye in the audience. I have watched it often, and it still has the same impact.
The heart of this film lies in its honest portrayal of gays and lesbians in the military, and how they are no different from anyone else when it comes to serving honorably and heroically. In war, there are only a few things that matter: Are you my brother? Will you fight for me? Will you die for me? The answer is always yes, no matter what, and this film speaks to how the young aviator's colleagues still accepted him after he was killed and they found out he was gay. Why? Because he gave his life for them, and they knew that this was more important than anything else.
The characters' journeys are clear and well told. Tyler is forced to reevaluate his own ideas of honor and duty when his lover dies, only just after telling people he can't reconcile fighting for freedom when he isn't free himself. That leads Tyler to his lover's father, Bill, in a mission to tell him who his son really was. Bill himself can't reconcile that his son could have been a hero and be gay at the same time. Bill is a man's man, but is fragile and frail in terms of his emotional strength. In the end, everyone becomes stronger: Kevin died with honor; Tyler, even though he has been discharged as well, has moral clarity; and Bill can go on with the peace of knowing his son was indeed a hero.
The performances are solid, maybe not Oscar-winning, but certainly better than a lot of gay movies I've seen. It is a short film, about a half hour or so, but that doesn't take away from its ability to convey its important message. As a gay veteran, I can say that this is a film that should be seen. And even though DADT was just repealed, it is important to reflect on our nation's very fresh history of discrimination.

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